The one thing I have noticed about this site is that people appear to go off the aesthetics and rarely take the time to get to know somebody. Yeah I do realise what type of site it is and there will be a large amount of shallow people here but you would have thought there would be a touch more contact. OK I also appreciate that I’m not the best looking guy on here by a long chalk and that the ladies do have the ability to select from a veritable smorgasbord of fit, desirable men. You know one of the really good things about being comfortable in the skin you have is that you are not burdened by the deluded belief that you are good looking! I now know that the old saying “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” is completely true. No matter how good looking you think you are it all depends on what the person looking at you thinks and you have little to no influence over that. Match this realisation with the fact that I know I’m not good looking this does appear to make me rather well balanced, or at least I think it does. Hehe. The other main thing I now know is that beauty truly does come from the inside. Someone’s personality can make them the most stunning person in the world or, just as easily, the ugliest. We all know people who are coveted for their beauty but have the personality of an angry spitting cobra and this makes them somebody we wouldn’t want to spend time in the company of. Well unless you’re as shallow as they are obviously. Put all these things together and I hope it makes me a guy worth spending time to get to know but that’s up to you to decide. So if you’ve read this far please have a read of the rest of my blog then peruse my profile and, if anything you see/read interests you get in touch and get to know me a bit better! You never know you might just like what you find!
