sexpot2287's Blog - page 2

Dear Gentleman,

While I know a lot of woman went nuts for the books, they are squirming waiting for the movie to come out, I'm not one of them. Do not quote him to me. It's not sexy. I did not enjoy the books. I'm actually not a fan. "What? How can that be?" I found it to be highly overrated. While yes, I enjoy light bondage, I can be submissive, (I can also be very, very aggressive and dominate when the mood strikes ) I enjoy a spanking, I like to set boundaries and take my bedroom play to new heights, I enjoy being told what to do (also when the mood strikes). I on the other hand don't want to be strapped up in your red room of pain, I don't want my main concern to be your wants and needs. I'm not changing who I am to suit you, so please take your Christian Grey act else where. Thanks!!

XOXOXO,

Ash

I was introduced to this song by a friend tonight and it suits this site. LOL. Thank you sweetie!!

I'll be the first to admit my marriage has had it's ups and downs like everyone else's. Before your screaming your to young for any big issues. In the almost 8 yrs that Mr. Tex and I have been together we have had some rough patches and have even had the "divorce" talk. We find new ways to make us work daily. And it's never just for the kids. We are both in agreement we will never stay together just for the kids. We both have parents who were in shitty relationships that they tired to make work just for the kids and it's better with them being divorce than it ever was with them being married. I found these two blogs, both written by men that covered a lot of the issues we have had or still have. And they both made good points.

[url]http://www.danoah.com/2012/10/16-ways-i-blew-my-marriage.html[/url]

[url]http://www.oddcrunch.com/divorced-man-words/0[/url]

I get a lot of the same questions over and over and usually from the same people. So I'm gonna make this simple. and answer them here instead on replying with the answer over, and over, and over, and over, and yes to you again, over. Then refer them to this for their answers.

1. "What bath products do you use?" (Not the strangest one)
Herbel Essence Naked, Dial Antibacterial Body Wash, Clean and Clear Face scrub,Suave deodorant, Crest Pro Health toothpaste. Not extra girly I know. I just like a light, clean smell. For special occasions I will spray on a little DKNY Be Delicious.

2. "You seem like a very sexual person, why no anal?" The answer is no. Plain and simple and I don't have to explain myself to and if you keep pushing, I'll tell you to "FUCK OFF" I'll do with a smile but I will still mean it.

3."Will you take special photos just for me? No Hubs involved?" NO, every photo I take he gets too. Your not special he is. I don't care that we are friends I don't hide things from him, that's the reason this works.

4. "I'm kinda shy with meeting with you and hubs the first time, will you meet with me so we can play, then have him join in next time?" "FUCK YOU" wasn't born yesterday, nor am I a dumbass.

and

5. "Why don't you put a picture of you inserting ......(random object) for me to see?" Since apparently you didn't catch it on my profile let me say it again. I DON'T JUST WALK THROUGH MY HOUSE AND DECIDE TO MASTURBATE WITH SOME RANDOM THING LYING AROUND. I'm each to their own but I'm not doing it.

Sorry if this seems rude as hell but come on, you can only answer these questions so many times before your like, Really? Come on.

and a piece of advice for some of you gentleman, some woman respond better to something other than "Can I play with your tits?" or "Let's Fuck." and then some of y'all wonder why so many woman go lesbian. I'm down for being naughty but use your damn imagination some. I'm not instantly wet for you just because you say you want to "FUCK ME".

XOXOXO,
Ashley

For those of you who actually know me, know that I'm a music junkie and I listen to very random stuff. You never know what will pop up on my playlist.

I have always loved this song but being a big fan of Michael Grimm makes me love it even more.

This song really makes you think about your relationship. Sometimes a few words can make a big difference.