bassman0084's Blog

I wish I could meet someone like myself... This site has allowed me to live my fantasies being a wanna-be swinger, however I feel that there's a stigma for people like us. It's hard to date someone who doesn't feel the same way I do. Monogamy just isn't in the cards for me... :/ I just have the urge to pleasure and have fun with multiple people, and not just limit it to one person exclusively. Not to mention finding other swingers that are open to adding singles to their circles--it seems that it's couples-only situations for the most part. Anyone have any suggestions on meeting women who are into the swinging lifestyle? Or is it just sheer luck that we find each other? Hope ya'll have a great night, and thanks for reading!

-bassman0084

My first time blogging on a swinger's blog... It's interesting at least!

I have been a member of NN for a very long time now (not premium though... :/) and I'm just starting to blog... I feel as though I am cheating the system!

Me, much like many of my male counterparts are ubiquitous on this site and like to post pictures of their junk (myself included). Unfortunately I am a professional in my area and despite the lack of individuals on NN in my area, I still feel obligated to not post pictures of my face. Thus I feel limited in my ability to meet people and just feel like complaining about it... I suppose I could find and pay for such options, however I still want to try and do it myself through simple interactions on NN. How do folks hook up? I feel as though the chat rooms are pretty much useless--and the few that I've PM'd have ignored the messages... This all sounds sophomoric, like I'm that kid who is eternally asking why he can't get a date. But I'm still a little bummed out. I've also had a few to drink tonight so perhaps I'm just coming off as creepy... Who knows.

I'm not sure who will be reading my blog, but if you are--Thanks!

-bassman0084