So I was reading about this club in NYC, where men check in, and you take off everything but your shoes, and you get to masturbate with an audience. Or you get to watch other guys masturbate, and apparently others can assist you while you masturbate. There's rules about no sucking, no penetration, so it's just jacking off.
There seems to be some interest in watching men jack off, mostly among men. Someone in the chat room admitted to me today, "It's cool to watch a guy jerk off."
Certainly have written about the joy of jacking off here in my blog, and I like a good jack off clip. Of the 40 vid clips uploaded, 17 are jack off clips, and if sorted by rating, all but two sink to the bottom of the list. But they all still have hundreds of views.
There are many styles of jacking off, and everyone does it the way that's best for them. But not all the methods of making your cock cum make good video. It's actually hard to find a real good jack off video. There's the fast and the furious, where it's all a blur. There's lots of bad lighting. There's times you can't even tell when the jizz pops out.
I've found really nice one, where the guy got all upset that only guys liked watching him cum. He has deleted and gone.
But there is the moment, when your cock is so hard, and responsive, and really, you kinda desire an audience. I've called it the "Hey Jenny, watch this!" moment. But she's seen me cum, and well, it's just me cumming, and she's seen it before. Old hat.
The best way to watch other guys jerk off is to jerk off along with them. You can feel what they're feeling.
Cribbed this off Urban Dictionary:
"Gooning" may be most simply defined as that state usually achieved after a prolonged edging session, when a man becomes completely hypnotized by the feeling radiating his penis. Since a gooning state can only be achieved after edging, the man's dick will have become mightily aroused at this point and every caress the male genitals are subjected to will trigger potent elation. As the man keeps edging and thus keeps experiencing intense pleasure, he enters a state of trance where his mind intimately merges with his cock : the gooning state, where he and his dick become one. To be even more accurate, when the gooning state is achieved, the man's body becomes for all intents and purposes an appendage to his erection. When this state is achieved, the male becomes freed of all social codes of conduct, and his arousal, alone, dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man will become very expressive and demonstrative : he may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses, all in response to the intensely exquisite caresses his penis is exposed to. Hence the term "goon", since at this point the man effectively looks like a silly, foolish, or eccentric person.
Gooning is not a narcissistic manifestation. Narcissism is extreme selfishness, with a grandiose view of one's own talents. Rather, gooning is closer to a meditation experience, where the mind and the body align, focused on a single thought (or feeling, in this case).
