My question is: Who here uses/has partner use condoms. Why?
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My question is: Who here uses/has partner use condoms. Why?
Sometimes it's good to wear protection even if you're with someone you're 'safe' with, I often wear one for anal with my wife, keeps things clean, extra lube and stops me being a 20 second wonder!
Stay outta the clubs, and the hood, and ur chances of staying clean go up astronomically.
Lucky for you I'm circumstised
I don't regret using them. They do the job, but damn I forgot how much I hated them. Mostly it was the smell... but also a big hassle and I just don't like how they constrict. In the end, it just makes me appreciate sex with my wife that much more. I love not having to worry about them with her.
I would still say for casual sex or fuck buds no condom no way that's my hoohoo and I want it clean.
Not even going into the other STIs out there but holy cow there are have some nasty things. (Yuck.)
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If you don't get Aids there is always Herpes,Gonorrhea,Syphilis and whole lot of other stuff that I am sure you are worth catching for a few minutes of fun.
I just love how everyone thinks a condom is a magic potion that cures disease, so they only use it for vaginal intercourse, yea thats million times smarter than just choosing safer partners.
To the other guy above, ur information is not accurate as far as transmitting HIV without testing positve for ten years, really dont even know what else to say about it other than that it is not even remotely accurate. What would the point be in even getting tested?
Whenever you don't use a condom while engaging in sexual contact with someone with whom you are not in a monogamous relationship and who has not been recently tested, you are taking a risk. And, yes, even with a condom you can get stds such as herpes and hpv. There is no judgement in this statement, it is just a fact. We all make choices and take calculated risks.
Nother issue is monogamy isnt always as monogomous as everyone would ideally want it to be. I forgot what comedien said it "men are only as faithful as there options" and aside from a few loyal guys out there, that statement is very true. As far as women, well theres is different, they always sleep with there ex's.
Selibut, or at risk, are the only true options. We all have different ways of protecting, fortunately for me mine has worked so far, but at the same time I dont live in fear of it. Everytime u get behind the wheel of ur car, the death risks are far greater than bareback sex.
I almost always use them when having sex with women other than my wife. It's just sensible. Especially if the person you're having sex with has a number of other sexual partners. These days the loss of sensation isn't that great, and with ribbed and tickler condoms they can even add something.
On occasions I've gone bareback, but I've always known that was taking a risk.
One thing - do NOT get a pack of the 'make you last longer' condoms like I bought at the last minute en route to fuck a friend. The way those little bastards make you last longer is by numbing the end of your cock, and that does NOT add to the sensation!
Of course BJs have always got to be lips on bare dick flesh
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So if u choose to be 100% and that means latex wrap from head to toe, no kissing, no oral sex, etc, etc, is really worth doing it at all?
It does no good to preach the use of condoms to someone like me who just avoids them when most condom promoters practice safe activities.......sometimes.
I am yet to meet a person who has had some degree of casual sex or any other unsafe activity, and was never at risk. Cause as I mentioned before condoms have no cleansing abilities and they wont make a wrong a right, as so many people seem to imply.
I don't now if you are monogamous with one partner and they are the same or not but I do know that odds go up with the more people you have unprotected sex with.I also now the STDs are in every economic class,racial/ethnic group and any other class so there is NO WAY to know if somebody has one until they tell you and I know that first hand and just got lucky I did not catch anything.
I am not the safe sex police at all but I do know if you get one its a life changer.