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In November I am particiting in Movember, an annual global event to support men's health issues. They do not get nearly enough recognition as women's health issues so I am doing my part to help out. I am growing a mustache for the whole month of november and you can help me out by click on my donation link

[url]http://us.movember.com/mospace/2095130[/url] (click the link, then "Donate to me"

Thanks in advance and yall take care!

So, tonight I received an email from my mom and it basically said "We have enjoyed getting to know your girlfriend (name withheld for privacy) via Skype and we are so glad that you get along well with her son and you look very happy.

She went on to say that she could sense that we are getting serious about each other (We are) but she had mixed feelings about this because it means I will be living in Colombia on a long term basis (I Will Be)... I havent said a word to my mom about us getting serious, its like she has spidey sense!

I mean I cant take my girlfriend back to Texas,she and her son speak no english and he is just 7. It would be totally unfair for me to uproot their lives like that when she has lived with her family her whole life.

Now she thinks my mom will hate her for "stealing" me away to Colombia. My mom will never hate my girlfriend but my mom will be really sad if I have to tell her I am not coming back to Texas anytime soon. But, I am the firstborn son so I think I have a certain responsibility to my parents when they get old to take care of them. FML. I love my girlfriend and I want to stay with her but it sucks having to break my family's heart if I stay here.

You cant choose who you fall in love with but some people have it easier than others huh? I have had to adjust to a new culture,new country and a new language.

So I know just recently I was bitching and moaning about the girlfriend and I, our little fight. But we got over that the same day it happened. I think it was good it happened. It shows that the girlfriend and I can fight and disagree and still want to be with each other. The rose colored glasses are off and we are really getting to know each other.

Since she has a 7 year old child our relationship really started off "serious" I mean I knew that this was not going to be a casual thing. Our feeling for each other have only grown since we started dating and its really great.

As unlikely as this relationship seems (She is Colombian and a single mother of a 7 year old and she doesnt speak any English) our cultures are different etc etc.

But I choose not to look at the challenges and just be happy that I am finally finally with someone who "gets" me. Who respects me and makes me happy. She knows how to cook and our personalities are similar. It is great to love and be loved.

Did I mention the sex is great and we have it often? I am looking forward to see what comes next in our relationship.... we are getting serious and even apartment shopping together!

So my relationship is actually NOT falling to pieces and we are still very happy. Although, we did have our first fight today and I want to tell yall about it so you can judge my level of douche-baggery (or non douche-baggery if you happen to agree with me lol)

First off you should know that my girlfriend speaks only Spanish and no English. Sometimes we have communication breakdowns or misunderstanding but today was more of a cultural difference I think.

So I took my girlfriend to lunch at a local shopping mall because we were already there. She told me she wanted Chinese and I ordered something else. I got my food first and I was starving! (because I had no breakfast) and then we went to go get her food. Well we sat down at a table and she started checking her voicemail's etc. I figured she would eat after she was done with that.

She knew I was starving so I started to eat. But, by the time I was almost done eating I saw she still hadn't ordered anything. I asked her about it and the BLEW UP at me... I am not talking a little bit mad I am talking really really angry lol.

At first I couldnt understand what I did wrong but then it became clear she was angry because I didnt wait for her. I admit that I could have said something to her but her level of anger was really uncalled for. I just assumed she was going to eat because she said she wanted Chinese and she was hungry. She changed her mind or got busy or whatever and that was not my fault.

I have been living single for a long long time and she has always, her whole life shared with people,cared for her son etc. So I think this was more of a cultural difference than anything. I am still getting used to this whole couple-ly stuff. I admit fault partly.... but her level of anger of this was way more than I deserved.



But, there is good news. The make-up sex was amazing now we are all good again Boy did I ever learn my lesson haha. So what do you think? Was a total asshat? Did I assume too much? I had no bad intentions.....

Just in case you are interested in the going's on in my life. Here you go.

[url]http://www.travelingwithtyler.com/2012/08/my-long-night-in-hospital.html[/url]

Well I have been taking all my meds and feeling better. Last night my girlfriend met my parents for the first time (via skype) and she was very nervous because of her lack of English but she did great! Everyone was happy

I am going home for two weeks in Nov to see family and I am pretty excited. I wont be bringing the gf with me this year but, next year she will come along I hope.

On a related side note, she has really not warmed up to the idea of NN like I hoped but she is cool enough with the idea of me staying on here just as is. So this is our arrangement. We have talked extensively about NN and I have showed her the site so cant say I didnt try.

I respect her wishes though. It is very interesting because she LOVES sex and we have sex like 4-5 times a week. Last night she showed me a squirting video and told me she wants to learn how to squirt! I have never had a girl request this before haha.

She seems like the perfect type for NN right? well she loves all this kinky stuff and making vids and such but just for us. So this is the way it shall stay.

Thats all I have for yall really. take care,Ty

sooooooooooo apparently I have tonsillitis. This sucks, its like the worst sore throat ever. But my beautiful girlfriend stayed at the hospital for 5 hours with me yesterday and helped me with translating since it was all Spanish lol.

My Spanish is decent but its interesting, my girlfriend speaks ONLY Spanish only for some reason I can understand her Spanish better than other Spanish speakers so she is really translating Spanish into more Spanish lol. I never hear any English but when she says it I can understand it.

Anyway this sucks and I hope I get better soon. The only positive thing was the entire hospital visit PLUS meds cost me only 40 bucks USD

I know I have said this before but im really happy. I hope this time my relationship sticks. At first I thought it was going to be a huge problem that she didn't speak any English and the fact that she had a 7 year old son. As it turns out neither of these are deal breakers....

She is meeting my family via Skype this weekend for the first time. We have been practicing some key phrases for her to say to my family. My personal favourite is "I am very happy with your son and like him very much"

I made sure she can say that one perfectly

I once again removed my pictures but here is why. Every time I have gotten in a relationship I have removed my pictures on my own accord. I removed them before I could even tell my previous girlfriends about NN just because I assumed they wouldnt like it.

Well tonight for the first time ever I actually told a girl about NN ( my now girlfriend) and we had a long honest discussion about NN and how she felt about it. She said it would make her happier if I removed my pics so I did.

I like her alot and I want to respect her wishes and as much as I love yall and NN in general, my relationship comes first. Take care,Ty

So, those of you who have known me for a while know that in my life I have had one really great relationship that didnt work out due to distance between us (she was in canada and I was in texas, we were young) but I have always loved her. Other than that I had one other relationship that I THOUGHT was the real deal but it wasnt.

Since then I have dated lots and lots of girls, always thinking "this one is gonna be different" until I am onto the next one. For various reasons (some admittedly my doing) and some for no fault of my own I just cannot get a in relationship that lasts.

As yall know I recently got dumped by my girlfriend here. It hurt but we only dated for 2 months so it was not that big of a deal. It was all on her.

In the meantime I have been fucking a beautiful girl but, a girl that I have no desire to date. Well I got introduced to an online dating site by a friend and I have now met a new girl.

Once again I am saying "I hope this one is different" for me. I like her, we have been on 3 dates so far. But here is the kicker. She speaks only Spanish. This in and of itself is not a huge problem, we are actually doing pretty well with the language barrier all things consider.

She is 27 and she has a 7 year old son. The father of her child walked out of their lives 3 years ago. Just left. So obviously for me this is a big deal. I am adult enough to realise that if I commit to her I am not committing only to her, I have to accept her son as well.

So while we have been on 3 dates and she is really beautiful and really sweet I know I need to take this slow. As much as I like her I cant just jump in and start dating her because it would be unfair to her and unfair to her child if I just floated into their lives and left again. They dont need that.

Basically im saying, if I decide to stay with this girl it has to be serious. Because theoretically I could be in a step father role. I have to think hard about this. But I do really like her.

So wish me luck and maybe just maybe this relationship will stick.